Prologue : So I’m blank for topics , I’m gonna write personal shit , i have not slept well last night . Ask me why?
Bloggers : Why?
‘GreY’ : Well there was a huge fight , yeah yeah … again , me and my 8months pregnant wife had arguments that lasted till 2.30am , there was no negotiation … There was something i did , which was wrong and i admitted it gracefully asked pardon and needed her permission to rectify it , but she wouldn’t permit me because like all the ladies in the world she too needed the weak point to strike at anytime .
So … first it was cold war that is non talking , not eating (me) phase at 10 pm , at12 it turned to be more colder pretending to be sleeping or staring at the one who is sleeping , at 1 it became much colder war and it was the stage where you spoke your self about ‘your mother did/said that ‘ aka past digging stage , which usually is the ice breaker so at 2 am there was a ‘toned down’ argument ,tears , threats , imaginary breaking things (me again) and finally a temporary compromise so that we could get sleep ( cuddly sleepers) … and within minutes it was 6.30 , and once again the cold war was on …
On the way to the office , the fight continues , the war can not last more than 24 hours you see , that’s the rules of engagement , thanks to the unrelenting traffic block there is argument again …. and suddenly she says ” You don’t love me the same because i am preganant ” , she knows she struck low and I’m hurting like hell but i have to concentrate on driving at the same time …. finally near the office she is sad sad sad … i cant see her that way so i mended and ask her to sit for a while . Told her that how sowwy i was and just asked for a chance to rectify the stupid (its nothing actually ,just a matter of sending something to India ) mistake and she said OK ! and then there was ‘baby talk’ …. and I’m on my way another happily ever after ..
Epilogue : i have called her zillion times to tell her that “i love her “, and how sorry i am , she said sorry too ( which is a first ) for the ‘low blow’ …. and she said the hospital had called and the blood test she did last week is absolutely normal , she doesn’t have gestational diabetes …. which is a huge relief ( because it would have stopped us from having another baby in the future) …..
Now y’all blogarettes can say all the mean things to me …. but hey its marriage … it works that way ..
Anyone for marriage ?